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writes:Help! I am in love with my maths teacher and I don't know what 2 do. I want to tell him but then I will not be able to do my work. My friends are making me tell him by this Friday (14/03/08) or they will tell him, what do I do? I really like him. I am 13 and he is well 36. Help me please. Reply to this Question |
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Enough already, you have two threads going on here with this same scenario. You obviously do not really want any advice you just want to go on and on about your schoolgirl crush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy friends didn't tell him because they saw i loved him so much
thanks 2 every1 for the advise
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 March 2008):
It's Monday, so tell us what happened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiona big thank u 2 every1 that give me advice
thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): Let them tell him.
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (11 March 2008):
As a teacher, If a bunch of girls come up to me in a class and told me that one of their coleagues fancied me it would be the bunch of immature girls I would be laughing at and certainly not the girl whose supposed crush they were talking about.
I probably wouldn't believe them in the slightest and even if I chose to believe them at all I would be quite touched that someone was fond of me but would continue to teach them as if absolutely nothing had been said.
As a teacher I am there to teach and do a professional job.
My View - let them tell him and don't be bothered about it. If you do not act bothered about it I can quite assure you that things will backfire on them as this whole incident says rather a lot more about their stupidity than it will say about any besotted feelings you may have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): you should just leave it and let your friends tell him, if you go up to a teacher and tell him you love him, he could loose his job if anything happened and you would never be able to look at each other again!! ive got a friend who is madly in love with a teacher at our school and every time we see him we shout ****** loves ******* and they both go bright red!!! its hilarious, but no one means anything by it, let your friends tell him and then just laugh it off! so much easier :D
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 March 2008):
Tisha is right, he'll probably just roll his eyes and forget about it. I'm sure he's heard it before. If YOU tell him you'll feel very dumb and regret it the minute it pops out of your mouth.
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reader, Tisha-1 + ♥, writes (11 March 2008):
 I think if I were the teacher and a bunch of giggling girls came up to me and told me one of my students was 'in love' with me, I'd think they were a gaggle of silly geese. And I wouldn't blame the poor girl who has mean 'friends.'
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Omg ur friends shouldn't make you tell him, you should be able do it in your own time! Just ignore your friends, yeah? If they wanna tell him then let them, but they're just bein really childish and the teacher probably won't see it as genuine. Try not to worry too much. I love a history teacher at my school and my friends practically begged me not to tell him, but I did tell him... in a letter! and I got in a bit of trouble for it, rather embarrassing actually! But in the longrun I think I did the right thing :) Do it when you're ready, dnt let ppl pressure you! xxx
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reader, O Connor  + ♥, writes (11 March 2008):
 wat? your friends will tell him? wat makes them think they have the right to tell someone how you feel about them? this is none of their business - and wat fo they think is going to happen from this? he is 23 years older than you, and in all fairness - telling him is probably going to make everything between you awkward. tell your friends to butt out and stay out of your business. yes its up to you to tell him, but in my opinion, no good can come of this. you said at the end of the post that you really like him - so you probably don't actually love him do you? email me if you want hun, btw its completely normal for ppl your age to think they have feelings for their teacher - but most of the time its turns out to be just a crush.
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reader, sweetpie88 +, writes (11 March 2008):
 well this is only a teenage crush that you have on him. make sure u don't do anything stupid and concentrate on you work. you really don't wanna your school mates to make comment abut u, and teachers will ever ever think about you as a girlfriend which this is illegal.
tell your friends to back up and stop being immature
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