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writes:Hi guys, i've been with my partner for 4years and we'v been engaged for almost 3 we also have a daughter together.. however for quite a while iv been feeling different around him. I feel like theres no spark anymore and our sex life is basically none existant. I cant help but feel unhappy i didnt think a relationship was supposed to be like this. Id he was 'the one' surely my feelings shouldnt have changed, or is that just myth that soul mates are eternally loved up.. anyway any advice or help would be appreciated x thanks x
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reader, askme88  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have 3 boys , when you are with soemone for a long time it is because you love them other wise you would not stay with them. The love and sex is not going to be as strong because you both have a child and if you work then that can cause a person to lack on sex over time. Try a date night together and spark up that romance,then a night of suduction. If you still feel the same then it is up to you to dicide if you want to save your relationship.
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (30 December 2011):
 Maybe start by asking yourself some questions and try to think about it in a serious way. What attracted me to him? What do we have in common? Is it based purely on sex? Do we complete each other or repel? Can we talk about our feelings? Do we really want to try and save the relationship? Is it just a passing phase or fancy? Are we serious about settling down? Do we just want a physical relationship? Are we physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually ready for a serious relationship? The list could go on but it's a starting point of a meaningful conversation to get things out in the open and communicate with yourself and partner.
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