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If he really wasnt interested why would he have text me all of those months?

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Question - (26 August 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2014)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I was texting this guy who was working away for about 9 months. During that time we were talking about going places together when he came home. Now he is back on one hand he seems interested flirting etc but on the other tells people he isnt interested. If he really wasnt interested why would he have text me all of those months? Im really unsure about what I should do, I dont think girls should ask guys out

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (26 August 2014):

olderthandirt agony auntWhy what's wrong with asking guys out. Womens Lib and all that jazz. I thought the sexes were equal now?

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A male reader, devont United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2014):

devont agony auntOne of my friends keeps in touch with a few girls he has no intention of dating, but he speaks to them enough to keep them interested in him. On more than one occasion, he'd come into work looking tired, and when you asked if he was ok, he'd casually say "oh I was speaking to Christina until 3am" or "Fiona got stranded on a night out so I went to pick her up".

I didn't get it at first, that's a lot of effort for someone you're not even seeing. Then we were out drinking one evening, the night was wrapping up and he started walking in the opposite direction of where he lived. When I queried where he was going, he said "back to Christina's of course".

So to sum up: he likes you enough to have sex with you, but not enough to give you any kind of relationship

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