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writes:My crush told me he only saw me as a friend, but he said he would go on a double date with me. if he only sees me as a friend, why would he want to go on a date with me? Would there be a possibility that he could end up having feelings for me? Should I even go on the date, or should I just move on?
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (13 December 2010):
Hmmm. Most people are attraction at first sight type of people. But some men are definetly not. I have a close family friend who's been married for 25 years to a partner whom he knew for years, that he had no attraction to. Then one night his friends met up with her friends, they made a connection over a laugh, and that was it.
If it's a double date, maybe he sees you as a good friend that wouldn't screw up his wing man status. But you never know.
I have 2 suggestions. One, totally blow him off and let him know you're not happy about it. That will get his attention. But it might not be great for your friendship.
But the second one could be better. Think of it as the Kate Middleton method. Get yourself dressed and made up as beautifully and differently as you can, thinking subtly pretty and not modeled up, and don't at all go after him - let him come to you. See what happens. It's only a night and the worst thing is that you'll still have the same relationship. Considering how you look, you might meet someone who does find you look great. Then you'll really find out if there's anything that can be stirred.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
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