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*inkbees09
writes:There's this guy that I like. I think he just likes me as a friend but I don't know. If I ask him to do small little things for me he does them, I catch him looking at me a lot, even from across a large room he was looking at me, he makes fun of me in a fun way, but now a days I notice he looks away immediately after we're finished doing our fake arguing. Maybe he had done it before but I never noticed. And then when we were talking about people being annoying in a joking way, he was like but (my name) really takes the cake for being the most annoying and then looked at me afterward smiling as to mean he was just joking hopefully lol. Unfortunately he seems to get annoyed by me sometimes. He talks to other girls but I never see him act the same way he does with me with them which I think is a clue but who knows how he is when I'm not around. So what do you guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, Pinkbees09 +, writes (16 March 2008):
Pinkbees09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm not really thinking I'm ever going to ask him out. I'd rather get a friend, or just me, and ask him how he feels about me, that would be easier to do. Just get him alone and do that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): He likes you ... A LOT!And that's why he's annoyed. He's scared you will reject him.The big clue is he's always looking at you. Which means he's *fascinated* by you.Give him some encouragement and allow him to build up his courage to act on his feelings.--H2H
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): I think he likes you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): this boy certainly sounds as if he likes you.now you have loads of options about how to go about this...
1. you could just flat out ask him- i know it sounds INCREDIBLY scary (and embarassing), but it may just be that he was too scared to ask you out. hes probably so intimidated by you(in a good way), that hes scared to ask in case you reject him remember-he doesnt know if you like him either.
2. you could drop little hints that you like him(e.g sit just a little closer to him, make eye contact- try to hold it for 2-3 seconds before looking away, then try again...)this could give him that little bit more confidence to ask you out.
3. get him alone somewhere and just kiss him- his reaction will definately tell you what you need to know
All of these may sound a little scary , but remember-no pain, no gain so to speak.
good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, kahlan  +, writes (15 March 2008):
 Hi.It sounds like he does fancy you.Maybe hes worried you,ll knock him back if he asks you to go out with him.If you really like him whats stopping you from asking him instead.The worst thing that could happen is he could say no.Go 4 it.Kahlan.
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