A
female
age
41-50,
*ibob
writes:Hello. Feelings just happen, and have for me been like this for quite some time. I have a crush for a man but he is married. I kept my feelings to myself. I guess he also feels the same. We have always been professional. Recently while he was talking to me, he confessed that he is attracted to me. He said that he can feel that there's something between us. But he said that his wife is so much on to him that he will not have place for another woman. He wont be able to meet another woman, not be able to call her, because his wife is always after him. I dont know what is really on his mind, and ever since he told me this his words have been on my mind. In other words is he telling me that he does not want to go out with me?
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reader, tibob +, writes (23 May 2014):
tibob is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for making me realise my mistake. I agree that as a female, i will get attached. As a woman, if anything happen between us, i will start to develop fefeelings for him. Nothing has happened yet. I pray that one fine day i stop feeling this way for him. Its all i want
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reader, Nancyb171  +, writes (21 April 2014):
DO NOT! I repeat DO NOT! Get into any relationship with this man. I have been in a 3 year relationship with a MM. I even left my marriage cause thats what we agreed to do. 3 years later he is still married and I'm his secret lover. As a female you WILL get attached! You will get hurt. No matter what he says, he is married and will choose to stay that way. Please run the other way. I wish I had done that. Ending mine today.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2014): What is on his mind you ask? He's doing a classic testing the waters to see if you will sleep with him and be his bit on the side and keep stumm about it. He's MARRIED. Yes he's telling you he doesn't want to "go out with you" .... ermmm hello? He wants sex on the side, it's obvious!
You're in you're thirties, time to grow up and keep away from married men. Are you crazy/immoral/desperate???
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