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writes:Ladies, if an ex said he is moving on and doesn't want to go back should you just take it as that or go by your instincts? My ex and I are still friends, we have a love hate relationship, even though he said this to me, my 6th sense tells me different.Do us girls really believe what our 6th sense is telling us, because the vibes I'm getting from him are very high, it's like he says stuff to me, that leaves me confused, and making me think, what does he mean by that...? He's one of those guys that never knows what he wants, and he seems like one of those people that say one thing but mean another thing.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (31 August 2007):
 I'm with the anonymous poster. Whatever he says, pay attention to his actions. And his actions are, he is still away from you. The best for you is to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): Maybe your paying attention to your sixth sense is simply a question of what you want to believe, as opposed to how the situation is in reality?
You won't get anywhere trying to figure out whether he knows what he wants, and analyzing him. All that will achieve is to drive you crazy.
If he told you he doesn't want to go back to the relationship and is moving on, I think that's pretty obvious and a strong statement of his intentions. I would assume that he meant what he said.
And, following on from that, cut the friendship. When two people break up it is not the done thing to continue as friends - because you both need to get over the ending, and continue on with your SEPARATE lives. Perhaps your life will take you in a direction that results in meeting a man who is "the one" for you. Perhaps it won't. In any case, you won't find out by trying to hang on to something that essentially no longer exists.
Do yourself a favor: don't continue seeing him. Give yourself a chance at new life!
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