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I would love to have a real relationship with a girl. (I'm also female).

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Question - (21 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I really want to have a real relationship with a girl, but i'm really bad at starting up that kind of thing. i tried to find some groups and sites and such to help me meet new girls and get to know them, but everyone just seems to be there for the sex and honestly i want to build a relationship with her before i jump into bed with her. it's even harder because i have to do this without getting attention from my parents(who're both against liking the same sex like the plague) or my sister. anyway, like a lot of people i want to connect with someone, but everything seems to end with a dead end. i'm already really shy, so talking to a girl i like is already hard....so i guess it's not so much a question as a need for help....where can i go to find a girl who's actually looking for a relationship and not some screw because they think it's kinky or exciting or something.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009):

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ya i get what ur saying....(btw i don't think i'm gay lol.i know :P) i'm all for lettin love find me...but it's taking forever, so i try and speed it up. it's just hard when u have a homophobic family, i keep having to sneak around

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A female reader, b-rich's girl United States +, writes (25 November 2009):

hey i am also a gay female but i have only been gay for 2 years and it so lovely well anyway me and my girlfriend has been know each other but in this matter but as in seeing each other around school an then we meet at my job and started taking but she just seen me an thought i was so cute and got my number but if u think u gay let love find u is wat i am saying if that person likes u then let it be known that u like them u know where i am comin from if so write back

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009):

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ya i've tried a bunch of dating sites...didn't work out.

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A female reader, MsFrankie United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2009):

MsFrankie agony auntHave you tried a dating website like match.com or eharmony? Eharmony in particular advertises itself as a relationship site that matches people on values etc. Both of these sites match same sex partners - it might be worth a try if you really want to meet someone!

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