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writes:ok heres the story!My 30year old sister is 1 month pregnant to her 20 year old boyfriend. This is her 2nd child to a different guy.it wasnt planned but she and everyone else in the family is really excited for her, apart from me!She had her 1st child at my age (18), but fell pregnant at 17. she has always said to me that if i ever fall pregnant then she will disown me and report the guy to the police!Well, im not pregnant but i would really love to be!ive had the whole: your young, you've got your whole life infront of you, its just a phase, babies cost money, you wont have a life, type of thing.But, its definetly NOT a phase, yes i am young, and life is what you make it, with or without kids.i am seeing a nice guy and he would like kids, but if i fell pregnant now then everyone would be saying im copying my sister! it IS something i REALLY want though.please dont think of me as immature or too young.i do know wht id be letting myself in for and have thought about it long and hard! please help! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit is not because of the attention she is getting, its because if i was to fall pregnant i would be frowned upon by my family but they are all happy for her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): rcn she says shes 18
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): "seeing a nice guy" doesnt seem much like a committed relationship to bring a child into to me
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (10 December 2007):
 I just sent the comment about asking how old you might be. I'm going to provide an answer from what I noticed without knowing that information first. Let me ask you something. How do you feel about your sister being pregnant? How do you feel about the attention she is getting? Are you at all jealous of her and her pregnancy?
The reason I asked is your being pregnant or wanting to be pregnant has nothing to do with your sister, her children or how everyone is excited about her having a child. It has to do with you, so I'm wondering why we needed to know the history of your sister when talking about you being pregnant.
This sounds as if your reason for wanting to get pregnant is to share in some of this attention she is receiving.
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reader, rcn + ♥, writes (10 December 2007):
So how old are you?
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