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I worry I am reading too much into his flirty, chatty talks.

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Question - (26 April 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2014)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Say you see a person of the opposite sex every day and you always have interesting conversations about random things. Or maybe they always ask "how are you?" when you come in and ask about your day.

Could this be possibly be flirting? Or am I reading too much into it? I'm almost 80% sure he doesn't converse this often with the others (our other coworkers) and we always have fun chats. And often times he'll get really into what he's saying even it means making a goof out of himself.

Part of me does feel like maybe I'm seeing what I want to see when in reality maybe he's just being his kind, goofy self. Maybe I'm just the only one who follows up on the conversation with him. (Our other coworkers are often very quite and don't converse much with each other.)

I feel like maybe I want this too much considering it'll be the first time any guy has shown any sort of interest in me. What do you guys think? Is it flirting? Or is just him being nice?

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (26 April 2014):

The signs aren't definite, but at least he likes you as a person. Maybe you could ask if he'd like to do something outside of work?

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A female reader, Atsweet1 United States +, writes (26 April 2014):

Atsweet1 agony auntHe flirting he is showing out to get your attention most likely. I think your seeing it exactly right cause you are interested he is interested. I think you should get more bold in your chats and talks. Find out if he is single or.just dating. See if he wants to go out on a date with you or just lunch of something of that nature.

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