A
female
age
41-50,
*eahreallyalready
writes:A few months ago I (38yrs old) met a man named "Jason" who is 34.Recently, we started spending A LOT of time together and although each of us intended on just being bed buddies, feelings have developed. He told me I'm his best friend. I feel the same way about him. Minus his maturity level being low, I like him and I enjoy his company.If I'm quiet or even bring up something that i don't think is fair to me, I tell him. The problem is that when I do, he says I'm flipping out, and "what now?". He also tells me that I'm miserable and I love to fight. If he clearly does something shitty to me, instead of apoligizing or taking any responsibility for it, he'll escalate it by being sarcastic "Yeah, that's all my fault too" and insult me by saying "You're too much" and "You're a tripper". He doesn't see how he is ever at fault and this caused a big fight last night that ended in him leaving.We texted back and forth but he took everything I said apoligettically as me being mean. I can't win.I could let things slide but then I would be resentful and I won't take shit from anybody. I admit, I feel like people are inconsiderate and it's personal pretty easily, but I treat people fairly in general.Earlier today, he told me that this is why he "forces himself to not develope feelings for me". Do I really want somebody that is doing that?Tonight, I texted him that I wasn't mad anymore and I would like it if we could try to figure some things out to fix this and if we are unsuccessful, at least we know we tried. His response was that his bank card isn't working. I suggested he call his bank.Should I just let him go? Is there something I'm missing? (besides him:-(
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reader, CMMP +, writes (27 August 2015):
He sounds like a narcissist... Better get out now.
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