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I woke up next to a guy I know, naked! Was I drugged?

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Question - (20 March 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Sorry this is a bit long.

About a year ago I went to a smallish festival with my mates. I am underage but I know how much I can drink. I'm a very sensible drinker!

But on the Saturday night I don't remember anything from 3 in the afternoon till the next morning, and before that I was merry (not drunk). My last memory before that was walking over to a group of loud lads, and lying in a tent with people talking (I couldn't make out what they said; it was blurry)

I'm 16 years old and have no recollection of losing my virginity that night, but when I woke up in the morning I was beside a guy, naked. Is it possible I had been drugged? I am desperate to know what happened to me!!! Am I overreacting?

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A female reader, kittykatty +, writes (26 March 2006):

it could be that you were drugged but could also be that you simply drank far to much! leaving your drink anywhere can be dangerous! and a festivals where guys are lookin for girls... well next time you need to be more careful just check you are not pregnant and consider yourself a virgin! good luck

kitty

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A female reader, Tell it like it is! +, writes (22 March 2006):

tell ur parents love, and check ur not pregnant or caught something and in future, b careful!!!!

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2006):

willywombat agony auntYeah you could have been but the chances are slim. If you had been drugged those cats would have wanted you out of there so fast your head would have spun. they wouldnt want to be found next to somebody they had just commited a crime on/with.

Look, in all honesty I would let this be a lesson to you and one that you learn from. Different things affect our judgement and one of them is alcohol. Sorry to preach, but should you have even been drinking at this festival?

The effects alcohol has on an individual can vary EACH TIME THEY DRINK IT!! Now this may come as a bit of a shock, considering you think you know your limits. But alcohol is the number one casue for people getting into situations that they wouldnt had they been in full control of all their facalties!

Look, get with the program and quit drinking. Especially if you make poor judgement calls like this when you are drunk. You get one life and next time you could lose yours by "mis-judging" a person or a situation.

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A male reader, d4u04 United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2006):

d4u04 agony auntIt doesn't sound like you're are overacting actually and could possibly have been drugged, I suggest you tell an older person you trust what your concerns are and get checked out for any kind of sexually transmitted deseases just to be sure. Because if you really can't remember anything, I'm really not trying to scare you, but anything could have happened my darling.

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