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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,My boyfriend and I will be dating for a year next month and I feel like something is wrong. It shouldnt be like this so early in the relatinoship. I cant pinpoint the problem but I know I dont want to break up with him. He makes me happy all the time and and we can sit for hours and just laugh. Maybe im not content, I dont know. He doesnt seem attracted to me anymore, hes really attentive during sex but whenever I spend hours getting ready I get no reaction. I get hit on all the time but is it stupid that I wish I would get hit on by my boyfriend? I feel unappreciated, I always make sure to go out of my way to let him know how much I appreciate everything he does and I always say thank you and let him know how attractive he is. Is it bad that I would like the same sometimes? I dont want to break up, we've talked but nothings changed and I dont want to nag him so I havent said anything. What can I do? Help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your responses. Bernard, I hate to think that I am one of those women that may need those compliments because I have never been that way but the more I think of it maybe I need it because I care so much about what he thinks. Aunt tracey, I value your response but I would hate to have to break up with him over something so small like compliments. I'll try again, maybe its just because we have been doing the same thing again and again every day and hes gotten too comfortable. I talked to him again and I think we're going to do something new. Maybe he'll get the very obvious hint (our conversation)!
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