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writes:im 19 going out with a 21yr old for the last 3 months he's lovely kind honest and genuine but a bit too sensitive. I went away on a little holiday for the weekend just with the girls and he got very upset, he said ''i would never to that to you'' I would have no problem if he went away with the lads and now he's not talking to me! Whats his problem??? Reply to this Question |
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reader, AskEve  + ♥, writes (18 March 2007):
 He feels insecure about himself and your relationship and part of him thinks you'll be unfaithful to him that's all. Reassure him that you're with HIM and you'd never cheat with someone else. He needs to learn to trust you more.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Hi babesA relationship is built on trust you have only been with this guy for 3 months and already he is sulking and not talking to you just because you went away with the girlies. Why would he not go away with the lads for a weekend?You need to talk to him and explain although you are his girlfriend you still have your own life and need quality time with your friends, he needs to trust you whether it be a night out or a little holiday and if he can't accept this is he the right guy for you?I know this sounds harsh babes but a jealous relationship is not a healthy one.I am not saying he is this kind of guy maybe he has other issues with past relationships, you need to talk to him to find out why he is feeling like this. A good healthy relationship is TRUST and COMMUNICATION, Good luck babes, Let me know how you get on sweetDonna x
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reader, Midge + ♥, writes (18 March 2007):
 Tell him to grow up. If he trusted you, he wouldnt think twice about you being able to spend some "girl time" away for a couple of days. Remember that men mature later than woman, but this is still no excuse for him to be in a huff over an innocent weekend away. Besides you've only been dating a short while, so tell him that you also need a little space.
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