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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend last week over something that I thought happened when I was drunk but didn't actually happen. Now I wish I could undo it, but he doesn't believe in getting back together. He thinks it never works out. He thinks that if two people break up, even over something like this, it probably would have happened anyway. This actually makes me love him more...he's been so logical about the whole thing, and for me emotion keeps getting in the way.I feel like an idiot because I have been trying to tell him how I feel and how much I regret what happened for the last few days, and he just keeps saying no. I know it's stupid to keep pressing him, but I really don't want to let him go. I still love him and I can't get over him no matter how hard I try.I guess I'm just looking for something....Some hope of getting him back. He was the best thing that ever happened to me...we were going through a rough patch and I have always had a hard time talking about relationships. I was wrong about everything. I guess the whole drunk incident just brought me over the edge.I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): I'm the one who asked this question. I did not cheat on him. There's no chance of that, it was just the two of us. I thought he was trying to get really intimate sex out of me when I was drunk. But, apparently it didn't happen that way at all. And I am remembering enough now to know that's true. He was trying to get me to bed after throwing up..not trying to get me to have sex with him. I just misinterpreted the memory.
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reader, Lotsalove. +, writes (28 July 2010):
 I agree. Leave him be for a while. If he realises how much he loves you, he'll come back to you :)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 July 2010):
 Stop contacting him. Let him make the next move. You will only drive him away if you keep hounding him.
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (28 July 2010):
i'm assuming you thought you had cheated and now you have found out you didnt?
I am a little suprised that you split up with your boyfriend over something you didn't know if it happened or not and to be honest if you put yourself in the position where you thought you were going to cheat and blame it on the drink then your not being very fair on your boyfriend.
unfortunately on this occassion it is completely up to him, you have made your feelings very clea but he is the one who was dumped and betrayed so it is up to him if he would like to take you back.
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