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writes: Dear Cupid,A couple of months I split up with my girlfriend. After the split I was a total dog to her. I was so mean and nasty to her you wouldn't believe! I was just a total bad guy to her.I know it may be hard to believe, but I have realised how important she is to me. I love her more than anything. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I so want her back! When we split I figured that I was the only one hurting and I wanted to hurt her back. I forgot that there was two people in the relationship and not just me. I realise that now. Anyway, a couple of nights ago I went to see her. She wasn't very happy to begin with that I had turned up out of the blue, and I can totally understand why. But then she invited me in and we talked until 2.30 in the morning. She told me that we would never get back together. But we laughed and giggled and talked to each other the way we used to. We even slept in the same bed. She made advances to me, but I declined saying "I don't want you doing something you may regret in the morning." When morning come she told me that she really respected me for not taking advantage of her. She says she wishes things could be different and I'm all she ever wanted in a man, but she told me that too much has happened for us ever to get back together. When I left, it wasn't until I got home that I realised I had left my gold chain at hers. I contacted her to tell her that I had left my chain there and she told me that she had it. She had tried to contact me, but hadn't had any luck as I have had my number changed. Anyway she has now invited me back to the house tomorrow night. I said I'd rather meet her in town, but she said she wanted me just to come up to the house. She asked me to leave it until about 10 at night as well so she can get the house sorted out and that. Am I reading too much into it? Or does she maybe what to make another go of it. I really would like a womans' point of view on this, as I don't want to make a fool of myself. Thank you for all your help.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (27 July 2005):
To me, it sounds as if this girl wants to remain friends with you and nothing more, especially since she told you that you would never get back together.
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reader, sheree2986 +, writes (27 July 2005):
She probably is still hurt by your reactions to the break up, take things slowly with her to see if her heart is in the same place as yours. As to her inviting you back to her place definately a good sign but she might want you to prove to her that you've changed. I'd apologise to her for your reactions previously and go with the flow from there but i'd say she is definately interested with you but wants to take things slow.
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