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writes:I know this is a 'help' site, but for awhile now I've been tempted to ask this/these question(s). After going through hundreds of postings here on Dearcupid.org and reading the same repetitive worries and cheats and the love-octagons (as opposed to love-triangles) by youthful teens and golden age 'adults' alike, I just want to ask this:1. What is love to you?2. Why is love so fragile today?3. What is the misconception of love?4. What do you think is the number 1 and 2 reason(s) for people to cheat when they can simply break up before doing something obviously so dishonorable?AND5. How do you rate yourself in terms of sexual openness and understanding? 1 being "I love gray, and sex is for making babies, and 10 being "I love my baby (your wife/gf/husband/bf), and sex is fun and porn is cool too!"Thank you.
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reader, shania  +, writes (24 February 2006):
 Thank you for that comment....glad to be of service.
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reader, martini +, writes (24 February 2006):
martini is verified as being by the original poster of the question Those are excellent answers. I won't think if anyone is wrong in their opinions. They are personal concepts, and what you said here is what you feel and how you present yourself in situations accordingly. Indeed, very close to my own. Thank you. 8]
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reader, shania +, writes (23 February 2006):
Well Martini....this is how i see it (but you dont have to agree)...Love to me is when you consider their feelings 1st before your own,a great affection for that person...also a sexual affection....you cant stop thinking about them...you want to be with them when they are not there....its such a strong emotion that it affects everything you do.Now why is love so fragile?.....its fragile because anything you say or do can jeopardise that love....you can fall in love so quickly...yet fall out of love so fast as well....What is the misconception of love?....thats a tricky question....i would say that love can be misconceptive if you thought you were in love but really you werent...thats where lust can get confused with love.Yes,why do people cheat when its so easier to break up?...well because you can...simple as that.Its called...having your cake and eating it....A married man can have the stability of his wife but the excitement for his lover....the best of both worlds....but people do walk away from their partner to be in the arms of their lover.Now my sexual openness can vary....but my views can change like the next person....everyone is different...who is to say whos wrong or right? I hope that has answered some of your questions.
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