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I want to wear the saree just like my wife does

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Question - (21 April 2009) 16 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2010)
A male India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am male , 49 yers old. I am wearing sareea since last 15 years, without knowing to my wife. She caught me some time but did not express anything . What shall I do .hall I start openly wearing saree?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

I am a 19 year old male. But whenever i am in home i only wears saree. Saree is my favorate dress.i love crossesessing since age of 8. my mom allows me to wear her blouse petticoat saree etc. But now she buy me my own.

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A female reader, Bassu India +, writes (25 April 2010):

I m a male cd. I had a strong desire to wear female clothes since childhood. I stay with my brother n his wife. She is a good looking n cultured lady. Once my brother was out of station. His wife somehow caught me wearing her dress. I expressed my feelings of wearing female dress, she understood me n allowed me to wear her dress openly. She helped me in wearing her saree n doing all make up. I was helping her in cooking n washing wearing saree n chudidar. During that whole week i was wearing only female clothes. We both enjoyed like two sisters.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010):

i am a married man with strong desire of cding once i expressed my fanticies to my wife and she was damn thrilled, by this sheer idea of imagineing me in femenine dresses. she too expressed her desire to put on my clothes while we go to bed, she brought bras panties of my size she also got a fine wig with long lusturous silky hair poneytail, she did waxed my chest feet ,she adjusted two water filled ballons for the bra, she got a pair of silica gel pads for my hips , did me pedicure painted my nails , on D day she draped me in a sexy pink saree ,showing my navel, put on all make up , maskara foundation , blush eyeliner lipstick , she adjusted the hip pads in such a way that when i walked they should shiver slightly, got me a nose ring n a pair of earrings , put on the wig n jasmine flowers with them she didnt forgot body spray which she uses then she went for her make up ........

she returned as a man , with my t shirt n my night pant,

she slowly started to cuddle me kissing my navel first n then started making love the way i do ,,,,,,,,

i swear that was the experience of lifetime ,,,,,,,

all credit goes to my wife

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010):

I am from lucknow and have always wanted to dress as a traditional bride and get married. I love the attire, the jewellery and the flowers that brides wear on the big day. I am fascinated by the traditional rounds taken around the agni (fire) which affirms that the bride is now on the property of the groom. The giving away ceremony by the bride’s father too is enchanting.

I would love to marry a sweet women who understands me well and will ensure that his wife is happy. I will cook and serve him and satisfy him in every way. He should make me his centre of attraction and should have eyes only for me. He should think of me only the whole day and his only aim during the day should be to come home and take me to bed. While I like being handled roughly once in a while, I would love to be slowly undressed item by item so that my treasures are revealed to my husband gradually and he thirsts for more. I will also love to handle his equipment in a very gentle way and will give it all the attention it wants.

I will serve him in an unconditional manner and will do whatever he desires. Tidying up after him after he is out of the house. Washing his dirty clothes and stained underwear from last nights session and drying them. I can imagine myself folding his dried underwear and placing it in the right place in his wardrobe – things only a wife can do lovingly. Only condition is that he should satsify all my feminine desires and should not complain about being drained in bed

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A female reader, Bassu India +, writes (24 March 2010):

U can wear saree as ur wife does there is nothing wrong. Its just way of expressing ur feeling. As i m also a male cd i m cross dressing since childhood. Only My sister know this n i cross dress with my sisters dress or my mom saree n blouse when alone in home or when my sister is with me. She understand me well n help me to wear her dress. I like to wear chudidar salwar kameez wear bra n panty of my sis. She helps me in doing make up with long hair wig, ear ring, bindi, necklase. I look very cute as a female. At dt time my sis call me as her elder sister some time we go out also for shopping. I like girls very much n i want to live like them. But thats not possible so atleast for some time i feel like a female..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010):

I am a male of 23 years old. I like to dress up as a girl. My sister knows this thing but she does not say to other on my request.

i use to wear sarees,blouses, bras,bengals,ear rings, bindis,payals......when iam alone or when my sister is with me or with some girls who knows this thing.

I am not a guy but i like to feel as a girl.

I think there is no problem to feel like this.....

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010):

i liked the last answer very much. i am a man. but i love to wear women's clothes and act as female during sex with my wife. i am not gay and do not want to have it with another man. i want my wife to dress up as a man make love to me when i am dressed as a woman. she should play the male role and i can play the female role. this is my very very great desire. but it will never happen.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

hi minati you are a perfect wife. you should touch the feet of your hubby every morning as a symbol of respect. indian wives are generally beaten by their husbands occassionally. are you ever been beaten by your husband. you should wear bra and panty always. you are after all a lady. you must not raise your voice ever. you must know knitting also. I am a lady but want to be a male. i dislike to wear female attire. had you been my wife, you would have been a perfect wife of a man. i would have kept you below me during sex. you deserves this. i would have forced you to wear female dress always and sent out of home enfemme.

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A female reader, Minati India +, writes (29 October 2009):

I am also a married crossdresser. I am having children who are reading at residential school and occassionaly visit us. While children are with us I do not wear female dress as adviced by my wife. otherwise I always wear saree or salwar or nighty at home and also perform cooking, washing, cleaning, ironing etc as per direction of my wife. in fact I am the wife and my wife is husband while I am in femme mood. I always reach home before 6 PM. My wife is also a working lady and she returns after me. As soon as I reach at home, I wear Saree, Saya, Blouse, Bra, Ladies chappal, Bungles, sakha, Vermilion, Jewleries, make up, anklet etc with ladies wig. prepare refreshment for my husband and wait. I welcome her and take her bag from her hand. remove her shoes. Give dress. while she come after wash I dish out her refreshment. Only after her I take refreshment. Then she take rest and I start dinner as per her choice. She takes dinner at 9 pm.while she finishes dinner I take it and clean the table and utensils for next day. Though we earn a hefty amount we did not engage any maid servent for my womanly nature. my wife did not force me to perform all works. but i have adopted the role for my satisfaction. In the morning i rise at 5 am. provide bed tea to my husband. prepare break fast and serve to my hubby at 6-30 am. after this i clean/wash all rooms and toilets. get bath and cook. I go out at 9 am. I take my food at 8-30 AM. Prepare lunch packet for my husband. I keep ready her saree etc for office. I am really happy and think myself as happiest woman and wife of the world. My husband is also absolutely free minded and now encourage me always to be more and more female. she always purchase my saree etc. she knows when i require what. i hate to wear male dress. i feel like queen while i am in saree. I serve my husband well and we have never quarelled regarding anything. She is the decision taker and I am her follower always. I always sleep at her left side. I walk behind her. I obey her always. She is happy having had me like wife. So you can wear saree ofcourse convincing your hubby.

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A female reader, Aunty Emily United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2009):

I would talk to your wife about it-tell her why you feel you want to wear it,but test the water first though,by asking her what she thought when she caught you-sorry to say this but it could be she didn't show any reaction because she was too shocked.You sound like you might be feeling really confused,if your having identity issues you could talk them through with a councillor if things don't go well with your wife-I wish you good luck

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A female reader, Shobana77 India +, writes (24 September 2009):

Shobana77 agony auntI am a male. I like sarees very much...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009):

I am 29yr old male. I am sexually excited only when I imagine wearing saree or actually wearing it. When I am alone, I wear saree, blouse and bra. I tie extra hair and wore all ornaments like bangles and apply eye liner.

Nothing wrong in wearing saree.. Make your wife accept what you are.. enjoy your life.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009):

Im a 23 year old male i wear sarees and im not ashamed by it. I feel very spiritual by wearing a saree as im hindu so all of you can SHUT UP who slags us.men off by wearing sarees

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009):

yes , ther is nothing worng, we have freedom to live as we like,

I tel you start wearing and do your normal work

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009):

gud.yar..... i am 24 year male and always attracked towards Female dresses..from childwud..now i wears saree and bra..when i am alone at home...... i like to wear all ornament also....but if i make up all this it remain up to only my mastrubation. after i felt guilty..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009):

Yes if u dare. I am also cd boy from mumbai i cant control my desire to wear a saree whenever i am alone at home. I wish to have a long hair like them and my nose and ear pierced. I think that i should live at a place where i can live like a woman. Earlier i had thought that i am alone like this feminine feeling .but later come to know about others. From my childhood days i am crossdressing i was wearing my sisters frocks and other dresses. But now i like to wear saree with undergarment . I always played with girls when i was a child i coudn't mix up with boys b coz they were very harsh and agressive and girls are always calm and understanding. I always liked to be with girls instead of boys but now forcibly live with boys because girl redicule the boys who always live with girls. I always watch womans dresses the jwellary they wear especially earring. I would like to stand at small jwellary shops on the road like girls but i cant b coz i am a boy. For others i am boy but when get alone i become girl. Mail me My id [email address blocked]

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