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writes: Hi ya, Im after a few pointers on how to show a guy that you love him. This guy is my best friend, he knows I love him and it hasnt scared him away or given him a huge ego. He isnt ready for a relationship and thats fine with me because I would rather him get over his ex than be in a relationship with me and bring all his insecurities into it because I dated a guy many years ago when I was rebounding and well its not a nice experience. He confided in my best friend and said that when he is ready he would like to be with me. I would just like to show him that I am always here for him, he is my world, I wont hurt him and when he is ready I will be waiting without appearing too heavy and in his face. Obviously there is a certain time restraint for how long I will wait as he may change his mind and decide he doesnt want to be with me afterall so I do have to be realistic here. But I would like to spoil him a bit, show him that not all women are the same and that some of us just want to love and care for him and not hurt him. Its going to take alot of time and patience on my behalf but after meeting so many different men over the years I believe this one is worth it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. H xx
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (17 October 2006):
 The one you love is worth waiting for but you can still date casually because every date isn't a life time committment. Continue to be there for him and be his friend. Seeing you date other people will spark more of an interest. You have to let him see that you are desired by other people and that he is getting someone who is special. Its not an overnight thing to get over an ex so it might take months or even years but you have to live in the mean time. Be patient thats the key. You can spoil him a bit. Take him out to dinner or the the cinema. There's nothing wrong with that. Just know that he is the one you want and if you care enough you will be around.
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