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female
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anonymous
writes:A guy I met broke up with me and said he doesn't know what he wants. he said he is lost. I asked to help him and he said no. I decided to accept it and now after almost two week no contact he texted me out of the blue and said "hope everything good with you" I am confuse about this guy. and I said I am doing great. I want to tell him to stop contacting me because I feel like he is playing with my heart. do you think he misses me or just want to say hi? the reason the broke up came is because I ask him to stop smoking and after that he started withdrawing from me. please tell me what to say if he textes me again. what should I do and what is his plan? please I need answer as soon as possible.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (31 October 2013):
 he's just being polite and feeling the waters. Most folks don't want to be the bad guy in the break up and they try to remain friends. that's what this is.
you asked for something, he would not or could not comply so it's over. Now he wants to feel better about the issue so he is trying to be nice.
You really can't ask someone to stop smoking.. what you can say is "I really like you but your smoking is a deal breaker for me I'm sorry" and leave.
If it bothers you to hear from him, block his number. You can even say to him "we are over and done and there is no need to pretend we are friends do not contact me" and then you can ignore him forever.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (31 October 2013):
 He just messaged you to keep in touch, JUST in case he can't find greener grass he can always use you as a "fall back" girl.
I would just tell him:" I rather you stop texting me, I see no point to it - have a nice life." Then BLOCK his number. MANY phone have free apps you can DL to block people.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (31 October 2013):
 Hi, just ignore his messages and he will stop. There is not need to respond and you don't owe him anything. Ig you want to heal stop all contact irrespective of him initiating the contact.
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