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I want to stop this secret relationship with this girl but not sure what to do. What advice can you suggest please?

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Question - (15 May 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2015)
A female Philippines age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I’m in a relationship with a girl like me.

We’re both straight but we really like each other that we end up together. This kind of relationship is really weird and new for us.

I don’t want others to know about us cause I feel embarrass—I’ll get embarrassed—that’s why I want it secretly.

She also don’t want to let the public know but she won't and don’t deny if someone might ask, but I sure will.

I want to stop it but I cant.

I don’t now what to do anymore. What will I do? Please I need not a wisdom words or advice but considerate advice will do.thank you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2015):

Its a catch 22 situation and the only way you can change it is to alter the rules...so you have to think what the rules are that need changing..Perhaps you feel out of your depth or maybe you feel that the other girl has a stronger personality than you. Perhaps you are worried that she will use your embarrassement against you, maybe you secretly feel that she will make a scene in front of a prospective boyfriend or possibly you are in a correctional centre and want this just to be a temporary arrangement. Will she threaten you or blackmail you? Or are you just worried she will point you out and say"oh, yeah i had her". What would Lindsey Lohan do? She seems to jump in and out of hot water without any blemishes.

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