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I want to please my girlfriend more, should I buy her a vibrator?

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Question - (9 February 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2010)
A male Puerto Rico age 30-35, *overBoy91 writes:

Hey, I want to buy my girlfriend a vibrator for this Valentine's Day. I want to please her in different ways; kisses, caressing, massaging her breasts, going down on her, penetration, etc. And, well, now I wanna buy her a vibrator for a change.

So, any advice or reccomendation? I'm an absolute newbie at this (I think a man should know at least a bit about vibrators, just to be able to please a girl better).

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A female reader, Lightningrod United States +, writes (11 February 2010):

My fav:

http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-maxi-wanachi-waterproof-massagager-14638.aspx

it can go fast or slow, and doubles as a regular massager, you can't go wrong! (also waterproof!)

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A male reader, LoverBoy91 Puerto Rico +, writes (10 February 2010):

LoverBoy91 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

LoverBoy91 agony aunthow much does the "rabbit" cost in a store?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010):

Get her the "rabbit". Or something else that pulsates and looks like an advanced tool. Or, if you want to give her a soft start (if this will be her first vibrator ever) go for a more neutral and smaller variant. Preferably a soft one (hard cold plastic does not feel good), and make sure the vibration can be adjusted to different speed levels!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010):

some girls will not like this and get reali angry but others will lauff and have a bit of fun with it you should talk to her to se if she wants that first or she might find it a bit rude and stuff....

Go annsomers they have a reali nice collection of them there iv gt the pink rumping rabbit and it is worth the money ...

have fun :P x

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (9 February 2010):

AvgGuy1 agony aunt

First, make sure SHE is comfortable with the whole idea of getting and using a vibrator. THEN maybe you can take her to a store and ask her to choose one. If you're not comfortable GOING to a store... shop on-line. There are PLENTY of places to buy them from.

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A male reader, james675 United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2010):

I got my wife the hitachi magic wand (from Sex & the City) and she loves it! So much so that we had to replace the first one (named Mr. Big) with a second one (Big 2) about a year later.

Not exactly the most 'romantic' vibrator but the wife loves it - all of her girlfriends have one now so it must be doing something right.

Trust me, when you're not really up for it but you can tell that she wants it. Just turn that badboy on while you nibble her neck and whisper naughty words to her - she'll be in heaven ;)

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