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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi i am in love with a Russian girl, who is now 19 and i am 22 year old in India,. i am a security trainee in National guards of the country and also a student (majorly in university)the problem is that my girl always asks me when i will come to her(since we never met even once) i know this seems awkward, but we never missed talking on smses and emails and now we are for each other.. i want to tell her i will marry her and noone else but she is just too worried and says that i will leave her.. ((since its the mistake of both of us of making an immature love, what should i do now?? i dont want to leave her, but how may i tell her that "honey i still love you and you will be mine and no one else's"she is too worried of it, and i couldnt concentrate on my job and education, (happy to know that she is good in studies- checked her name/marks on internet-so assured of it)we have seen everything of each other, just the touch is left.. she is the wife of my mind.. i cant leave her tell me what to do?? i need 3 more years to be to her, and she is loosing patience..
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 three years is a long time to wait for somebody you've never met. especially wth such a distance between you. Physically being with someone is really really different to talking. A physical in-contact relationship will develop differently once you meet up. saying you're going to marry her when you dont know the real her is a bit.. hmm.. i don't know. presumptuous. You're jumping into something without ever spending time with someone.
The reason she is worried you'll leave her is because you've never been together in the first place.
As for what you should do now.. I honestly don't know. I don't want to say 'leave each other to get on with your life' cos that seems harsh, though it mite be whats best.
You can't expect her to wait 3 years to MEET you, nobody can wait that long for someone, no matter how much they love each other.
U need to talk to each other, decide if it's worth it, find a way to see each other before then, or just call it off.
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