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male
age
18-21,
NickPalace
writes:I'm really stuck!I'm good friends with this girl, and we flirt a lot together in a friendly way.. anyway, I'd like to take it further, but I a) dont want to read the signs wrong, and b) don't want to ruin our friendship by making a move if she doesn't want it.I get nervous when I'm thinking about trying something when I am with her. We went to the cinema tonight, but I bottled it and didn't do anything so we just watched the film. We are going again tomorrow and I would really appreciate some advice on a) how to read the signs and b) how to make a move if I feel the signs are right, and so it won't ruin our friendship if it doesn't happen.Please help!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): Hey,
Here is what you want to do: get kinetic.
You need to escalate on the kinetics, it means you need to touch her... first light like puting your hand on her shoulder and puting it away after a couple of seconds, then on the next chance you want to play with her hands like if you were able to "read" them, later you may touch her hair and let it go, late you can give a huge to her...
If you do not go kinetic she will see you just like a friend! So touch her, but be aware not to do it in a sexual way. Just as if it was normal for you to touch people.
Best wishes!
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