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writes:i am 14 and i want to lose my virginrty..but the thing bout it that i hve a new boyfriend and i tld him that i lost it ...so wht do i do?? n will he tell if i did not lose it when we nave sex...? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): He is going to find out. Trust me. I AM GOING THROUGH WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH. Im 14 years old (turning 15 in 5 days) and i want to have lose my virginity to my boyfriend. i want to wait. but then again i want to just do it. so i think you should wait. cause if you love him. then he should be your first. but if you dont love him. then you shouldnt have sex with him. i really want to have sex with someone that i am in love with and spend the rest of my life with.
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reader, samjayne775  +, writes (12 February 2010):
 I know you have misled him but I honestly think he would't be that bothered if you are a virgin. It is nothing to be ashamed of, in fact the longer you hold onto it the better. Guys love knowing that they are the ones who introduce you into the world of sexual experiences. It makes them feel manly and powerful. And like others have said, girls like guys who are experienced. So don't worry. Just tell him and if he doesn't understand, then he is not worth it. If you need anymore help, just email me! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): You've got things backwards. Girls think it's sexy for their parnters to be experienced, boys don't.
Boys only seem to want experienced girls at your age just because they want sex itself so much.
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reader, xlittlemisstroublex +, writes (11 February 2010):
first of all girl what where u thinking?... u dont have to go lying to your boyfriend either he accepts your a virgin or not.
and why do u want to lose it?.. are u sure u want to think about it carefully before u do girl cuz once its gone guess what.. IT AINT EVER GONNA COME BACK!
and yes he probably will be able to tell but it is different with different people .. but most probably yeh hes gonna be able to tell
i think you need to tell him your a virgin and just explain to him why you lied he should understand
and make sure u think things threw and your positive you want to lose your virginity don't rush it.
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reader, superwoman021 +, writes (11 February 2010):
i think it would be best to just tell him your a virgin and trust me your rushinh into it way to young, i made that mistake and wish i never, plus it aslso changes the relationship and sometimes not for the better, think about it for a long time and make your mind up before you go through with it and find out that you never actually wanted to do it.xx
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