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writes: I'm really worried im in my early 30's and i havent had a normal loving relationship in 10 years !!! I have only ever met either really needy blokes who suck the life out of me and suffocate me, scare me off saying they want a 'future' with me after 3 weeks and i have to dump them, OR i meet the biggest bastards ever who treat me like sh*t (and of course the sex is amaazing) but in the end i can't take their games and it makes me miserable! I cannot handle this much longer and i worry so much for my future as i'd love to find the right guy and be in love , settle down get married and have kids ...i have so much to offer, im good looking, smart, and have the most wicked sense of humour but i just can't seem to find my soulmate anywhere? Its so depressing that I am just not finding the right one and i refuse to settle for anything less than what i want. Anyone got any advice how i can find the right one?
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reader, birdynumnums  + ♥, writes (14 March 2007):
 Hi,
You seem to have sorted out what you don't want and don't need in a relationship - so I think you are well on your way to finding a relationship that works for you. Get more involved in your OWN life, surround yourself with the things that you want to in your own future and you will meet more like-minded people. If you love museums - become a docent! If you are a sprorts fanatic, get seasons tickets! If you see yourself owning a dog in the future, get one now - it's a great way to meet the people in the neighbourhood. Get involved in all the things that you have been putting off and don't forget volunteering (you meet a wonderful bunch of people). Don't be discouraged, a lot of people say the moment they stopped looking and started enjoying themselves, they turned around and there he was! Hope this helped a bit, Take Care.
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