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I want to hook up with this guy again, but I think I ruined it!

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Question - (5 October 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2011)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I know it is going to sound weird. I had a terrible break up and decided to need to go out an socialize. I wend out with some friends and drank more than I should and finished dancing with a guy who came with my friends. Before that he mentioned that we could go out together after work sometime.

After a while we left and went to his place and had awesome sex. There where no kissing, just sex. He said i want you again and then i said i am going home and left. I know. But i was drunk and realize that my legs were unshaved and thought about my ex-bf and a mix of stupid things. He was nice but i guess i was less nice. We didn't exchange numbers.

Now i find myself thinking about this night and honestly i want to shag him again. Not because i have feelings or want a relationship or nothing. Just because it was good.

My question is, did i ruin it for good ? what should i do ? wait until coming across him next time and go with the flow ? Trying to contact him ?

I know this sound silly but thanks for your advise anyway !

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2011):

Perhaps he may turn up when he fancies some cold sex. Perhaps you may have learned to value yourself by then.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2011):

If it is just for sex you maybe havent ruined it. If its for a relationship or gaining his respect then maybe you have.

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