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writes:Almost 50 and extremely horny. All I want is to have sex with the father of my children.We haven't been together for over 12 years. We broke up because he hooked up with best friend and things havent been the same. Getting back together isn't an option.We kept in touch because we had a child together and one thing led to another and I got pregnant again. I broke all ties with him. We talk now and then I've dated but it's not the same, I think that I will compare him to other men. It just seems to me that I'm unable to move on. The sex with him was amazing. I just can't get baby daddy out of my vagina. So what do I do?? Please help.Thanks Extremely horny
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2017):
 You will never allow another man in to your life if you keep comparing him to your ex and fantasizing about him. You are old enough to have no strings attached sex if that is what you want, but it will no doubt stop you from moving on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2017): Assuming you could pull him back in for some sex and after its over what then?
Or do you want him in your bed night after night?
Would the goodbyes hurt again?
And your feckless best friend who broke you up?
Is she still on the scene?
Is this because he's a safe bet?
If its your vagina and your man then do what you will and deal with your after feelings as needs be.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (16 October 2017):
How will you know if the right man for you is out there, if you keep the wrong man in your life??
There is man out who could rock your world like never before. But you will never know unless you let go.
The fact that you are horny should drive you to find someone to control your flames.
Makes no sense...Horny and hopeful to get sex from someone who you cannot have.
Man hunting season...Yes? :)
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reader, femmenoir  +, writes (16 October 2017):
 Hi,
you need to let go completely and move on with your life.
Staying with somebody, or wishing to be with them simply for the great sex isn't everything.
You guys clearly had and have issues, otherwise you'd never have gone separate ways in the first place.
You need to think long, hard and deep about that.
My final conclusion.
Whilst it's good to have a healthy sex life within any relationship, this isn't the be all and end all.
For a relationship to truly work and stand the test of time, you must both have a healthy balance upon every relational aspect.
Sex comes and goes, however, true love and a life lasting future together, also requires a deep friendship and a solid foundational connection.
I don't mean to sound rude, however, if you're so horny, perhaps you could try masturbating and finding some self relief.
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reader, femmenoir +, writes (16 October 2017):
Hi,
you need to let go completely and move on with your life.
Staying with somebody, or wishing to be with them simply for the great sex isn't everything.
You guys clearly had and have issues, otherwise you'd never have gone separate ways in the first place.
You need to think long, hard and deep about that.
My final conclusion.
Whilst it's good to have a healthy sex life within any relationship, this isn't the be all and end all.
For a relationship to truly work and stand the test of time, you must both have a healthy balance upon every relational aspect.
Sex comes and goes, however, true love and a life lasting future together, also requires a deep friendship and a solid foundational connection.
I don't mean to sound rude, however, if you're so horny, perhaps you could try masturbating and finding some self relief.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (15 October 2017):
 Distraction and alternatives are all I can suggest. You clearly aren't going to be reunited with Mr Wonderful any time soon. Enjoy your hormone boost while it continues.
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