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writes:Dear Cupid!Sorry to bother you. My problem still sustains there and now i need your help very desperately please. In my previous questions i asked you about a lady but almost all answers were very good and i tried my best to control myself but in vain.Again i am asking you the solution of the same problem please please help me.My problem is i want to develop relations with the wife of my brother in law (Brother of my wife). We both are 37 years old. She is a school teacher and her husband is in abroad. But problem is my wife and she has not good terms and they both dislike each other. On the other hand she and me has good terms. We often talk to each other on phone in long duration calls. but never went down from ethics due to some reasons. She also has not ideal life with her husband because her husband thinks that she has some lesbian relations with her colleague and he discussed this thing in front every family member. Me and that lady has also discussed this topic on phone calls few times. and i also told her many times that she is an ideal wife in my eyes. She appreciate this thing often. As i tried to forget her as i am indulging to think about her and i always have had BIG CRUSHES on her. Kindly consider my problem and help me because at least once in life i want to have sex with her. She has very excellent figure and curves and her breasts are the most attractive part of her body and thats why she makes me crazy all the times.Hoping a positive response from your side.Take careBye
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (18 December 2012):
Like someone stated below, I think its a bit sad that you're coming here looking for advice/support on how to bed your brother in laws wife.
Romantic relationships are really one of the few things that as humans really need to be 100% mutually exclusive, ie, before you start another, you finish the one you are on. Thats not even to delve into the rats nest of having sex with one of your in laws.
The entire thing is an extremely bad idea, from every angle. Nothing good will come of it. Not a guess.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 December 2012):
 as long as all four adults involved agree I have no issues with any of it.
but all four must agree and be aware of what's going on.
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reader, scottmartinez2012 +, writes (18 December 2012):
 Only and only if your wife and her husband agree to an open marriage agreement. May you then do the rest.
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reader, MenLoveMe +, writes (18 December 2012):
 Are you just a horny toad? Perhaps you need your hormones checked. If your testoterone levels are too high, you may have a hard time resisting beautiful women. Men have been losing their minds over me lately and really struggle with strong urges and the desire to bed me. I have also read articles about the prefrontal cortex which can be out of balance making moral choices and controlling urges difficult. Perhaps you should see a doctor. There are treatments that can help these issues. Otherwise I say, prepare for your wife, her brother, and the rest of her family to beat you down. That is highly inappropriate. Has this woman shown an interest in you as well? I certainly hope not. That is nothing short of an early death sentence. Go meditate, pray, get a new hobby. Try something new in the bedroom with your WIFE. But resist the sister-in-law with all your might!! Stay away, don't even chat on the phone if she calls. Don't flirt with fire!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2012): I wanted to tell you what a stupid idea this was, but then I realized that you never mentioned if your sister in law even reciprocated feelings for you. So you think because you have a rotten relationship with your wife, her husband teases her about being a lesbian, and you talk on the phone sometimes that's an invitation for you to go make an ass of yourself?
I'd be careful, otherwise, you'll end up in the the cat fight from hell between two sisters. For all you know, she might talk to you on the phone because she has no one else to talk to or because she trying to irritate her sister who she has beef with....it likely has nothing to do with her feelings for you.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (18 December 2012):
 lol @ tennisstar88 brilliant response!
to op
I think you need to understand morals, respect,loyalty, It's your wife I feel sorry for! you obviously see women as a sexual tool rather than a human being with feelings ... get a grip on your hand to man relationship if your that highly sexed ( meaning get yourself a magazine and have a long bath )I'm sure you catch my drift!!
Mandy
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2012): This is surely a joke post? You want to have sex with your wife's sister in law, and you want advice on how to do so? I genuinely don't think I've ever heard anything so ridiculous in my life! What about your wife? Where does she factor into this? Do you not care that she will feel very hurt and betrayed if you do this? No wonder your wife doesn't like her sister in law if you blatantly creep around after her all the time like a love struck schoolboy. And the fact that you could split up her brothers marriage, did you ever think of that? Talk about trying to single handedly destroy a family! If you are not happy with your wife then you should leave, but you must understand that this woman is married and is out of bounds. Start acting like a grown man instead of a horny teenager with a crush, and accept that you can't have sex with everyone you fancy.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (17 December 2012):
 Ask your wife to talk to her brother who might put in a good word for you to the lady concerned.
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reader, fzald +, writes (17 December 2012):
Your problem is far from unusual and many men (and women!) suffer it in a long-term marriage. It's exactly why there are so many affairs and infidelity situations!
First, you need to figure out why you are feeling this strong attraction for the other woman. What, in your marriage, is unsatisfying? What are you not getting that you need out of a relationship? It's time to seriously think about your life, your relationship and your marriage, and understand EXACTLY what is going on.
I would never advocate leaving one woman (Especially when you're married) for another, but it also doesn't sound like you're necessarily trying to do that. Just do remember though that any relationship built on the destruction of another will likely suffer the same fate!
It's perfectly OK to be friends with this other woman, even to be close to her, but it's not OK to cheat on your wife. Even if you were to leave your wife for her, she's also married and in many cases affairs end and the married couples reunite. Don't get your hopes up.
Also make sure that your sexual attraction towards her is not just physical! You mentioned her physical appearance - if that's the only reason you're after her, then you definitely need to stop!
Best of luck!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 December 2012):
 What did your wife say when you asked for her permission?
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