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I want to have sex but I know it is a big thing...any tips?

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Question - (6 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2009)
A male South Africa age 13-15, anonymous writes:

i am inlove with this girl. i am 15 and she is 19. we have been very close together for 2years now, i love her and she loves me back.

but i am too inlove with her, i want to have sex. i know itz normal for a guy of my age to want and crave this because of hormones and stuff but i just feel it is right and i think that she wants to have sex with me aswell :). please help me i am so confused in what to do. i do not believe in sex after marriage and i know sex is a big thing but i am realy in love. Any tips?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009):

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r.e on the post. "sex after marriage". What i mean is that i am not in anyway an evangelist and i would of course have sex after marriage. What i meant is i would have sex before and after marriage but marriage is not restricting me from having sex. Now is it more clear. . . Sori about the mistake.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009):

Dude, what do you mean that you don't believe in sex after marriage? You are obviously too confused to make a rational choice. You are conflicted between a moral choice and a hormonal choice. Your indecision tells me that you are not ready for sex. Go take "matters into your own hands" (several times) and wait until a couple more years before you try being intimate with someone.

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