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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): i feel the same way
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): just a point of correction what i had mean't to say is "... she doesn't have to accept your apologies and no she is not being hateful..."
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): ok first of all most of these answers are ok and that about it. putting ones personal feelings ino an answer helps NO ONE! in the days of old families most often times married into the family. i am not say it right and i am not saying its wrong.now the fact that the two of you had a sexual encounter as minors (both of from the way i am reading your question) it is considered a natural thing to be curious and that all well and good. I agree with the one individual if she has told you no she isn't interested in you in a sexual way then thats a final answer and she need not give it a second time.you say that you have feeling for her ... ok well if that is so then try to not destroy the relationship that you do have by trying to con her into having a more deeper relationship. one it isn't right and two it denies her the freedom of choice and no one likes to be conned or conered into doing anything. love her for the person she is and keep the physical feelings in check. if she appraoches then that is different... but again if she doesn't or if she does if the words No, I can't, or I really don't wnat to do this then respect her decission and leave it alone. you will find someone else that sets your strings of desire on fire.as far as apologizing to her that is fine but know this, she does not have to accept your apology and she is being hateful and she won't be in the wrong for it is her choice and not yours and just saying that you are sorry doesn't make what happend go away and if it bothered her then bring it back up will certainly bring thoise same feeling back up and she will have relive the whole situation again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): If you have a bit of patience I might be able to find out how you get help in the UK. If you're in America go to any sexual assualt center and let them know you are seeking a councler for your past concensual discressions with your cousin and your current problem. They will help you and you won't be arrested.I'll get back to you about the UK stuff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeh i probley need help to see someone but how do i get one str8 away to see counsellor but someon told me it take three month abd cant wait that long
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): DO NOT EVEN GO THERE! Some kids do things when they are young, grow out of it and want to forget all about it. Please do the same.take carexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeh ok thx , how do i tell her that i sorry for cuase problem , and how i ask her to if she wangou out sopping sometime as cousin friend that all
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshouldi say sorry to her bout cause problem bout me and her and how to i can ask her if she want spend time with me as friend that all
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshouldi say sorry to her bout cause problem bout me and her and how to i can ask her if she want spend time with me as friend that all
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): You shouldnt go through to this. Shes your cousin i understand shes a good friend but there will be family arguements that dont need to be caused try and find someone else.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (5 September 2007):
It's O.K. to ask, but you must be ready to accept her answer as final.
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