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I want to have anal sex. But...is he serious?

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Question - (30 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2009)
A female United States age 18-21, *uestionablegrl writes:

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half. Hes so sweet, and our sex life is wonderful.

But we constantly make comments about doing anal. I'm interested in doing it, so i say lil comments about it, jokingly just incase he thinks im weird, or gross. But he constantly makes the same comments as well.

We both don't have the courage to actually say and be serious that we want to do it!

He already told me once, that he would want to use a condom for anal sex, and lastnight i saw a condom on his desk, and i said "Ohh! a condom! Does this mean you get to do me in the butt?" and he said "Well, it doesn't exspire until 2010, so i have awhile until i can do you in the butt"

I don't know if he really wants too or not! How do i know if hes truely joking, or just...really interested in it as me, but scared to admit?

What should i do?!

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A female reader, tinylass United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2009):

tinylass agony auntmaybe you should try and write things that you both want to try on paper and take turns in picking them and trying them out you never know he might write the same thing.

hope it helps good luck x

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