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female
age
26-29,
*cchick
writes:Ok so i am really close to my best guy friend and we talk all the time now, but i've known him for the whole year and i've never seen him outside of school. Now its summer vacation and I'm really worried that were just never gonna talk and were gonna lose touch completely by the time next school year comes. I talked to him about it, but he never has time to hang out at all because he is really into sports and he is always at training seriously like the whole day every day all summer. He doesn't even hang out with his best guy friends anymore and he says that hes not going to hang out with anyone because he doesn't need friends because they are just distractions to his sports. I don't know what to do. If we don't see each other. I'm worried we'll just stop talking completely by next school year and i care way to much about him to just let the whole relationship slip away! please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (17 June 2011):
 That is not a relationship. Relationships are between two people who both want the same thing.
He is about your age right? He has said he is focused on sports. That is his passion.
Sadly, he is into other things. You need to let this one go.
Do not waste your summer waiting on someone who is clearly not interested or available. ENJOY your summer with your friends that want and DO make time with you.
Best Wishes.
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