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writes: Me and my Ex boyfriend split up around this time last year, but have been on and off since then. I've now moved on to a lovely new boyfriend but I've just been invited to my ex's party. If I go, I know that something will happen between me and my Ex....but I'm starting to think that I want it to happen. But I don't want to jeopardise the relationship im now in!!!!! Should I go to the party? please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2005): If you dont want to ruin you and your boyfriend's relationship then don't risk going to your ex's party if you know something will happen. You need to think of the consiquences if something happens between you and your ex. You need to make a decision of what you want.
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reader, Cutie_Mish +, writes (31 May 2005):
If you think that something will happen, it's best that you don't go. You need to think of the reasons why you and your ex keep splitting then getting back together again. It might help you realise that you actually want to be with him or not. You can't go on and off your ex anymore because you're in a relationship, but you still have a choice because you're not married! Only you can make the choice if you want to jeopardise your relationship or not. Only you can make it happen. My advice is, if you go to the party, make sure you show your ex that you are in a relationship and happy so he won't try anything on. You can't have both him and your current boyfriend.Hope you make the right choice! xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2005): I suggest dont go! Basically you dont wanna risk it..what may seem like a bit of harmless fun with your ex could turn into a real problem later on and with your present bf. You obviously had your reasons for breaking up with him in the first place, so chances are it wouldn't work out for the second time. By not going all you're doing is missing one party; by going to the party you could be missing out on a really decent relationship with a really decent guy! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2005): You shouldn't be in a relationship if you want things to happen with your ex. It's not fair. If you know something will happen if you go to the party, then maybe you shouldn't go. If you want to keep who you have now, you should forget about your ex and look forward to the future.
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