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36-40,
*rchidude
writes:i have a problem .. i really love my best friend and all of my friends that knows about her are saying dont go for it , thats why i keep on telling people that we are only friends and nothing more though i really love her!!well even she started saying the same thing to our friends and now my mind keeps on playing tricks on me cause she keeps on saying things that gets me jealous and keeps on talking about the hot guys passing by and yesterday she told me that a very hot guy just passed by where she works and that she didnt do anything not even trying to talk to him or anything.. we are always flirting and she says that she likes talking to me , even told me stuff she didnt tell anyone else even her secrets, but at the same time she keeps on sending me those vibes that make me feel that she is testing or something.. i want to change my position from a bestfriend into a boyfriend but am afraid all of the things am feeling are just a big missunderstanding of whatever she is saying and doing... plzzz help me cause i dont want to lose her as a friend and i want her more than anything else in the world !!
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reader, archidude +, writes (9 June 2010):
archidude is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell hell !!
i intended to tell her how much i love her and today at 10 am she sends me an sms telling me that we shouldn't talk anymore .. and that its not my mistake or anything .. she says that she is the reason.. and then says that i was the best friend she ever had in her life and that i shouldnt try to call her anymore !!
i did nothing wrong and i didnt deserve to get those words on a message a freaken text message with no reasons no explaination !!
i dont know what to feel anymore !! am just hurt to the bones and i feel like i hate everyone and everything around me !!
help meeeeeeeee plz !!!!!!!!! am about to lose my self and i already lost the love of my life !
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reader, Angel Milly  +, writes (8 June 2010):
Ok - life throws curve balls at us sometimes and believe me you are not the only person to go through such a dilema. From what you have said about her it is clear to me that she thinks more of you than you think she does. People always think that women and men are completely different - when really we are very alike.
Her trying to make you jealous she is obviously working otherwise you would not be writing this email....here's the biggy.....if your friendship is 100% rock solid then you can say anything to each other, so go ahead, tell her how you feel. Why go through life and always wonder - that never gets you anywhere. Listen to your gut feelings and if you think it is the right thing to do then do it - I think you will be surprised at her reply.
Good Luck.
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