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I want to get my sister into bed

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Question - (10 November 2007) 14 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, *ust a guy writes:

i am 14 i like my sister wont to get her in to bed but she it 19 and has a bf plzzz i no i wont to do soo if any one can help me on it hlep me two get my sisert into bed wat am i meen 2 she is 19 i am 14 but i no i wont 2 do this

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008):

Don't try to get your sister into bed. She is older than you, so you probably couldn't convince her to do that. She would really have to want to do that herself. About the only way she would ever even get that idea in her head was if she saw you naked or something like that and started thinking of you in sexual way. About the only way she would even remotely thinking that way about you is if you started telling her that she looks hot, or ask her lots of questions about sex, or tell her jokes about sex that are both dirty and funny.

Does any other guy here have a hot sister? How do you deal with that? I know some really hot women who have brothers, and I wonder how the guys were able to deal with being around a sister who is hot and sexy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

dude, i am also facing the same problem. but as of now i am just fantasizing about her. the only difference is that i am 23 & she's 21. i am going to find out the way to do it in some time, but till then i would suggest that u should only fantacize about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

hi i want help i want to get me sister in bed with me can some one give me some tipps please!!!!??????

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008):

Dude I can totally relate. My sister is 4 years older than me. When I was younger like 8 she would be naked around me never thought much about it. But, when she blossomed into 34b's like over night I always tried to see her tits. I would spy on her in the shower and changing clothes. We played back and forth for a while but it was innocent.

When she was 17 and I was 13 I knew what sex was. I had already masturbated myself and was looking at porn books.

My sister was cute and I wanted her. So, one day After school she was in the shower and I just walked in naked with my little hard on. She just laughed at me. But I got in the shower with her and she quit laughing.

I say if she is willing than go for it. There is no harm and you will grow up and have normal lives. I am now 34 and my sister is 38 and we are still close friends. We dont care if we are naked around eachother but we dont have sex. My sister is my best friend. It is just sexual exploration worst she can say is NO and then honor that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

hmm well i can really relate to this, i was the same age and so was my sister, she had a bf or the next bf, i was infatuated with her from the time i was 12 and she was 16

she was a sexy girl in anybody's eyes, it was difficult for me with my hormones going crazy, it was like i was attracted to her pheromones (smell) i got myself in trouble a couple of times, the first time was when she invited me to sleep in her room, there was two single beds and we were really getting on like best friends that time, lol i sleep walked and when i came back i tried to get in with her! i the next morning i tried to explain it was sleepwalking but i think she was suspicious! but it was true lol!

but after that i would sneak in her room to try to slip under and smell her or see her but she caught me on more than 1 occasion and she eventually brought that to the attention of our parents and it became an embarrassing issue!

i think she despised me for a while but, i dont mean for this story to sound arousing, (i am trying to help)

but 1 morning i was upstairs drying off in my bedroom and i knew she was coming up the stairs so i dried my face with that towel and let her see through my open door, my proud hang! i peered through that towel to se her amazing gaze which seemed to last a while, and then she attempted to get out a question that she intended on asking in the first place as she knew i was getting ready for school, she was stuck for words when she tried to speak.

but i will add that later when she moved out with a new bf i went to new year party at her house, in privacy she gave me many new year kisses, and when i showered there she would open the shower screen to give me soap and look at my proud piece.

that new year night after every one was asleep and her bf was drunk asleep we gave each other new year kisses and it lead us to further actions, it was lovely for both of us and we have been only sister brother since and our relationship is great!

the end result is any love must be mutual,

my sis now has a family with the oldest daughter 16, we dont look at each other weird we are great friends.

this is my story, but not my recommendation!

i say too you, to work off your mutual vibes!

if the vibe is one sided then dont act .

good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007):

Shes your sister so she out of bounds !!

Shes got a bf !!

You could ruin your relationship with her !!

and your only 14 .. x

all this is reasons y not 2..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007):

Why do you want to have sex with your sister? Is it because at your age, you have never had sex with a girl before? If not, this may be why you want to have sex with your sister.

Bottom line is that you can't get her into bed unless she wants to get in bed with you too. The best thing to do is ask her for advice on how to get girls into bed, listen to her advice and then go out with other girls and use the advice your sister gives you to get those girls into bed.

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A male reader, nwsflash United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2007):

nwsflash agony auntYour sister is a No Go Area ! No Go..... Full Stop "Period"

Call me old style but I think your still a little young to be thinking of doing this kind of stuff with anybody.

At your age your hormones will be all over the shop, you need to learn to control them.

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A female reader, ambercich Canada +, writes (13 November 2007):

I think you need to go to a doctor. Theres lots of girls in this world find one that your not related to,

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007):

This is just sick. Not only is it incest it would also be illegal if you weren't related. Your sister will be totally freaked out and even more she already has a boyfriend. You need to see a GP and mix with girls who aren't related to you.

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A male reader, just a guy United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2007):

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just a guy agony aunt(Mod note to the original poster: Leet speak, kiddy speak are rejected, even if it's from the original thread poster. On top of that, your reply did NOT make any sense whatsoever. If you have a problem with your friend, deal with your friend. For anything else, you can respectfully ask Andrew, the site God for stuff.)

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A male reader, FoleyIsGod United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2007):

This must be a joke. He cant even spell properly.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2007):

kenny agony auntI think you need to stop these feelings you are having for your sister imediately. Sharing any form sexual contact with a blood relative is classed as incest, and is very very wrong. She is 19 and has a boyfriend, she would be shocked if she new you harboured these kind of feelings, and whats more i think your parents would be even more horrified. I suggest you stop these feelings right now and cast your attention torwards girls that are not related to you in any way shape or form.

Good luck

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (10 November 2007):

dapone 1 agony auntHi

I think you really needs to see a psychoanalysis,if you have these feelings towards your your own sister then i am afraid i cant help you.

Judging by your letter it seems that you are having a break down of some sort, go to your GP, and make arrangements to seek psychotherapy be for it is to late for you, if your sister is aware of what you are up to she will more than likely punch your lites out, go seek help you need it now.

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