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I want to blindfold him and talk dirty. What do I say?

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Question - (10 January 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

Well the situation is that me and my boyfriend spend time together, but not much time alone together because of school, and work and we don't really have our own place. Well this week well tomorrow we finally have some time to be alone together. So i wanted this whole experience to be different and more fun. I have never blindfolded him before or talked dirty to him. I think it could be fun and something to remember for a while lol. So I was wondering if any one has any tips on talking dirty, and what do guys general like to hear from their girls.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

Read this http://www.portlandmercury.com/portland/SavageLove?issue=22904

I was thinking the same thing and this gives at least the beginning to what you want to do. Good luck!

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (10 January 2008):

SamuraiRick agony auntI'm going to make this simple for you. Use every dirty word in the book. And say the "F " word....a lot!

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntJust tell him what you would like him to do with you or talk about what you have done with him before and tell him you love it when he........ but while you talk kiss him but kiss him randomly instead of goin from his lips down kiss his neck then his stomach then his lips just be really random so he doesnt know whats coming next it will drive him crazy if he doesnt expect whats going on.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (10 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntI think it is inappropriate to mention all those unmentionable s in here. LOL!

You should blindfold him and then tie him to the chair . Have a bottle of red wine on standby.

Are you sure , you only want to talk dirty only?

Use liberally all those four letter obscene words, names of all those sexual organs , make a concoction and then splattered all over his face ,let him lap it up. LOL!

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A female reader, peaches08 United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

peaches08 agony auntFirst of all, saying the wrong thing can sometimes freak a guy out. You should know how his mind works in the bedroom. Don't try and be someone you're not or it'll just be embarressing for both of you.

An idea is to think what you would like to hear if it was him doing this.

You could start by thinking about more explicit sexual words and phrases that describe how you would like to be touched during sex, and make a list of sexual words that you feel comfortable with.

Or you could "narrate what's happening,".

Saying "I love it when you...," or "It feels amazing when you.." is a way of talking sexy without having to be explicit, a way to warm into it slowly.

Hope this helps.

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