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writes:[Mod Note Poster the title you suggested was already taken] Hey I need some help, you see I have this friend who is a boy and I have known him since I was 4/5 and I want to move a bit further on with him, but I want him to make the first move. I am not afraid of him I just don't want to look really stupid if he doesn't like me in the same way. What should I do :LL HELP xx Reply to this Question
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 It amazes me at how agressive young girls can be when it comes to boys. You've known him since you were 4 or 5? You're friends, I am sure he knows that you like him.
He probably isn't into having a girlfriend or he would be letting you know that. I guess you can go ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend, but yes, you may look a little foolish, but so what....it's not the end of the world.
Personally, I don't know why a young girl needs a boyfriend..why not just have boys who are friends and focus more on you and achieving some goals for yourself. It's nice to have male attention, but why limit yourself to one. There is plenty of time to grow up and have relationships, enjoy being a kid, that's my advice.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 July 2010):
Well, he won't be making the first move. Most likely because he doesn't have a clue how you feel. If you want him, then go get him. Don't wait for him to make a move, because he will either end up confused, or he won't read any hints that you give. Talk to him. If it goes wrong, then he's not the one.
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