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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm torn between two guys. One is my ex who I met 3 years ago, we dated for over a year, and have broken up and gotten back together 4 times. The other is this guy I met at a club. I met him about 8 months ago and instantly was attracted to him because he is cute and an amazing dancer. He used to be in some bad stuff and hung out with the wrong people but has changed. He treats me better than anyone else ever has and I can tell that he truly cares about me. I feel so comfortable when I'm with him and it starts to scare me because I've never felt this way about anyone other than my ex. My ex has no idea about this new guy in my life and I don't want him to because I can't let him go and not have him in my life.Should I go with this new guy that I might love or might just be infatuated with that absolutely adores me or go back to my ex that I can see myself marrying and spending my life with?
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reader, Sprout +, writes (15 July 2008):
New guy! Most likely you & your ex broke up 4 times in one year for reasons. You don't want to settle to marry someone when there are factors like those reasons present.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Honestly, not to be mean, but please realize what you are doing to your ex. Plain and simple...it's not fair. You need to choose now or to ditch both of them. Also, you are extremely young, we all went through something like this at one time, but wait until college, stop limiting yourself to only two guys. Why not just face the world instead? Just WAIT! Date someone completely new, maybe around thirty you'll settle down with someone, just leave it to time. Don't stop your life before you get a chance to live it.
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