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writes: Any tips?My ex is with another man. I desperately want her back. I've told her this, she's listened to me. She's not told me no or yes. She keeps saying she needs time to live a little. I can't work out whether she's serious with this guy or whether she's just experiencing other things before she comes back to me. I've written and called her but now she says she needs time to live a little by herself...and that I should leave her alone.Should I leaver her alone? Or will this let the other guy get more of a foothold in her life? Or should I try and remind her that I'm here and waiting? Or would that scare her off? So confused, any ideas welcome. Thanks, Dom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2006): What i think about this is you should try and remind her that you are here and waiting,and tell her how much you love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2006): I'm in the same boat as you buddy, but I told her that I missed her and then did not contact her anymore,I started going out and started dating other woman and she found out and now she wont leave me alone,but my feelings for her have change I feel like if she would leave me to go back to her ex, well fuck her she not worth keeping!! THEY NAME STREETS AFTER WOMAN LIKE THAT- "ONE-WAY"
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): I am in a similiar situation, I dated this girl for 11 months, she moved to Michigan to attend school there. It's been 7 months since we broke up, and all I do is think about her. My advice to you Dom, is to break off communication with your ex completely. Take what you've learned from that relationship and move on, you will get over it in time. But you have to WANT to get over her.
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reader, Bestfrend +, writes (28 November 2005):
If your girlfriend needs to be "reminded that you are here" absolutely no doubt but you need to find someone who does not need any reminders!!
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (28 November 2005):
 She has already told you to leave her alone. What other answers could you possibly need. She has found someone else, so why would you keep trying to get her back. Why don't you go and find someone else that's available. You may still want this girl, but she obviously don't feel the same and you're the one that's going to be hurt in the longrun, which isn't fair to you and you can prevent that from happening by not calling her and trying to contact her. Leave her alone and go on with your life as she wants to do with hers. If you really care about her, you will respect her wishes and if and when she wants you back, I'm sure she'll make it a point to let you know that she wants you back in her life. Don't just be waiting around for her though, go out and have fun and live a little yourself. Maybe you need a change and some new people to talk to. I'm sure you would be able to find someone else yourself just like she has to make you forget about her. Good Luck!!!
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