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I want his love even though I don't love him

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Question - (16 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *doitbetter1993 writes:

okay so me and my current boyfriend have been dating on and off for 10 months...at one point i was inlove with him but after a awhile i fell out of love...i started cheating on him with different guys...i have commited so much infidelity its rediculious..and he has no idea what i have done..i was pregnant by him before the infidelity but we decided that we werent ready for a baby..when i went to get my abortion he was sappose to be their for me but he was locked up..i became angry and thats when my infidelity started..recently he got tattoos and he told me that he also got my name on him also...he wanted me to visit him so i could see it for myself...i go visit him checked his whole body..Theres no tattoo with my name...my feelings where hurt because he lied to me so i smacked him in his face twice and i broke his glasses...i feel bad because i love him...i am no longer inlove with him i know that for a fact because..if i was in love with him i wouldve never cheated on him...my only problem is i dont know if i should call him and apologize for smacking him and ask him if he wants to be with me again because i know it would make him happy..but i wouldnt be happy because i dont want to be with him anymore...or should i juss call and apologize and leave it alone...but the thought of him loving someone else kills me inside because..i dont want him to love anyone else but me...i feel like i can talk to whoever i want but he needs to love me even if i dont love him back...I Need Some Advice Please

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010):

You are far to young to be concerned with a relationship. You have no knowledge about what it takes to be in a loving relationship. I think you need to seek therapy from a trusted adult, you need to use condoms and not give your body to men so easily for it will only lower your self esteem as you get older and you have failed relationship after failed relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010):

That's a pretty selfish attitude, don't you think? Just because you don't love someone, doesn't mean it's ok to cheat on your partner or treat them like crap. Respect for your partner, respect for yourself, where did all of that go?

Using "I don't love him" to hide your problems and justify your actions doesn't really make sense to me. If I were you, I would come clean about your past, and how you actually do feel about him.

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (16 May 2010):

Auntie E agony auntDear Idoitbetter - First and foremost PLEASE get on some easy to use and reliable -long-term, birth control. If you care to you can private message me. I have some rather personal questions for you that you may not want to answer for all to see.

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