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I want him but don't want to rush him! What should I do?

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Question - (16 October 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi there.... okay heres another similar prob hehe!

I met this guy a couple of weeks ago, he's absolutely lovely and has been completely straight with me, he's two years younger than me and has not long come out of a 2 year serious relationship. He said he is ready to move on and wants some fun but can go deeper than just sex! The thing is its hard to believe but ive fallen for him already i really have. We've been texting and we were going to go and watch a film together, today. However he txt me on sat but this hasnt been mentioned, i dont wanna push him but i dont want to lose him. Is there anyway i can make him think "wow i want u" without him feeling rushed!

The only other thing is im insecure about myself, im not slim and am on the large side and couldnt possibly think he'd be interested in me, but a couple of my friends think he is. So ive im having a little party at the weekend and i asked him if he and a couple of mates would like to come and he said it depended on what time he finished work but he might come on his own as he'd be with a load of girls :) on the end!

So what do i do?! He's complimented me in his own way and when ive seen him he's approached me! Am i clinging on to false hope?!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006):

Your instincts are probably right, he is interested in you, but I would be careful about having sex too soon or getting too attached, he is on the rebound, I would give him several months to recover from his 2 year relationship, you don't want to be rebound girl and get hurt...your size does not matter to him apparantly so don't worry too much about that...people also want what they can't have so be a bit hard to get even though you are dying to get with him it sounds...hope it works out your way.

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