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writes:I recently split up with my boyfriend. Been together for 2 years lived together for 6 months. We had the odd row you know, but we always got over it.My exboyfriend recently admitted that he isn't in love with me more ... he still loves me and cares for me but he doesnt want to be with me more because there isn't no passion. He claims that the arguments have built up all as one and he cant get over them.I believe that this was because when we started loving together we forgot to make time for one another and started leading seperate lives but living under the same roof.I am absolutely devestated and dont want to move on, but my ex doesnt seem to think that there is anyway back for us. We are still good friends and text and im etc. but he says that he doesnt wanna be texting me all the time. I really do not want to even try to get over him I just want him back. I think that if we remain friends and try and hang out this spark what has been missing will come back. What do people think?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Here is a very good article for you to read .
How to Regain His Interest! Here is What You Absolutely Must Do If Your Man Has Lost Interest in You
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Regain-His-Interest!-Here-is-What-You-Absolutely-Must-Do-If-Your-Man-Has-Lost-Interest-in-You&id=4016648
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am feeling really down and upset and it feels that the only way that this stops is if I talk to him :'(
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I have just asked him if he fancies doing something and he said no its too soon for him at the minute. Does this mean he still cares about me?
But ... I have come to the conclusion that I am going to try my damn hardest to ignore him. It's for the best I do need to move on as much as I dont want to.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (31 March 2010):
I think absence makes the heart grows fonder. Be away from him for awhile and he will miss you .
When he is in that state of mind, the more you go to him, the more he will reject you or push you away.
If he does not come back to you , you should move on.
What is the point of wanting him when his heart is not any more there ?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 March 2010):
He's not coming back and has made it clear. You have to move on. At some point that you and he were living together, he decided that it just wasn't working out. You need to move on. He has made it clear that he's not coming back.
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