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I want him back and now after his booty call the other night, I am feeling more desperate than ever. Advice, please?

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Question - (24 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2007)
A female age 41-50, *ishagirl writes:

Two weeks ago my partner and I broke up.

We have been struggling for a few months now and just couldn't seem to get it sorted. The biggest prob was my inability to tell him what i want. I have now gotten over that and understand it is essential.

I want him back but he says he is not interested.

Last night he ended up making a booty call visit.

This has left me feeling more desperate than ever.

I have told him I want him back but he just says it won't work.

I feel so helpless. What can I do?

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntHe says he's not interested, yet he's interested enough to to just use you like a piece of meat to satisfy his own sexual desires??? What are you thinking here? Have a bit more respect for yourself. Of course you're more confused than ever, you have feelings for the guy and when you sleep with him all these feelings come rushing back. He slept with you, got his rocks off, satisfied himself and is on his way again. Where does this leave you...? You feel worse than before it happened, used and more confused than ever.

NEVER let him use you like this again. Admit to yourself it's over and look for someone else that will love you in the way you deserve to be loved.


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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007):

He knows you're crazy about him, that's why he's using you! He's told you it won't work but you're still prepared to sleep with him. What man is going to give you any sort of commitment if you're prepared to sleep with him when you are not in a relationship? You've got to be strong however difficult this is.He will see you as clingy otherwise, use you even more and you'll end up feeling ten times worse.Do not contact him, do not sleep with him.When he sees that you are strong and independent then he may come back. If he does, only accept him on your terms, that you want a committed relationship and not a booty call!

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