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30-35,
*alshie93
writes:Me and my ex girlfriend are going through a time where she wants time to think about getting back together however she is so indecisive and cannot decide and everytime I bring it up she always finds problems with giving it another go even though she says she doesn't want to let me go.I recently decided that with advice from my friends, the internet and my grandfather that I shouldBe short with her if she speaks, but be polite, don't start conversation and if she is short with me don't text her back.She popped up tonight on chat, and said"I heard you've been talking to that blonde girl who was chatting you up"Now, even though we are single, and it pains me to ignore her and not push her for a decision, is this a good sign, am I doing the right thing?I want her to miss me when she is thinking on a decision, even if she is torn between moving on or giving it another go, what can I be doing actively (etc) to get her to come back and start missing me and not wanting me gone?*Please check my other question for more info*
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): ~LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR LIFE POSITIVELY~That you are sitting around wasting your precious moments away trying to figure out a way to win another's attention and affections really makes me want to make you feel better.Sweetie, it is a beautiful thing that you love her, but you must love yourself more than her or anyone else such that you are able to love another properly.Don't concern yourself with trivial matters, such as that which you've shared. Allow her to do her and you do you.Your association with her is apparently taking away from your happiness...NOT GOOD.Continue to respect her. Let her do her...and Most Importantly get involved in activities and social situations that bring out nothing less the best glow of You.Let go of tunnel vision. You will be amazed at just how many qualified ladies surround you.NOW GET OUT OF THAT WALLOWING ROCKING CHAIR AND LIVE, LOVE and LAUGH!!!!
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