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I want her to be more affectionate, shouldnt she be comfortable being affectionate after 2 months ?

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Question - (11 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2007)
A male Germany age 30-35, *ack23 writes:

My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 months. She is really self conscious, and she even admitted it. She and I have held hands, etc, but at school she doesn't like anything else but hugging. I respect her space and comfort, but I really want to be more affectionate, and I think she could be comfortable with it all after 2 months, but I still don't know. Help!

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A male reader, Royofthe Rovers United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2007):

Royofthe Rovers agony auntSome girls find it hard to do this. Dont hold it against her. If you care for her the best thing you can do is to show her, by giving her time and the effort. Laughter does wonders with opening up people and their inhibitions.

Not all people are cormfortable with physical contact as others. Respect that, and it sounds like you do so hang in there.

Take care.

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A female reader, beanie0216 United States +, writes (11 April 2007):

beanie0216 agony auntWell, maybe you should talk to her and ask her how she feels about being affedtionate with you. Tell her how you feel. tell her that you really like her and holding hands hugging, and kissing means a lot to you and you want to do it more often. Tell her exactly how you feel, and ask her how she feels about it. Good Luck.

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (11 April 2007):

nologo agony auntAffection and Love are two different feelings.

Only in classy relationship they come together.

I think this has nothing to do with her being comfortable around you or 2 months period of going out.

This is just her way to express her personal feelings:

"She is really self conscious, and she even admitted it"

You CAN tell her that you need more Affection from her anyway.

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