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male
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36-40,
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writes:Dear Pal, I want to ask a question. There was a girl, she came to my ICT centre to do something on the internet.Whenever she came, I will help her because she don't know anything on the computer. I like her and she like me too. We exchanged number. After that, I started sending sms to her? Friendship sms not love sms because I don't want to rush her because she might get angry about it. I want to take it slow. One day,If asked her to come and see me in my office, lets discuss more about us, she refused and asked me what I want from her, I should tell her my heart. She told me last time that she don't want to date any guy.because guys are very bad and dangerous, although she have boy friends, but not lover.then I asked her that means you never have any love relationship with any guy. she replied if she say yes, I may think she was lying .I told her that a beautiful girl like you cannot be lonely, maybe you haven't find a right guy that will make you happy and love you forever. Just today, she went to see a guy off, after seeing the guy off, she came to my office. we chat and discussed,but not too much. . She said that I want to kill her with sms and call, she don't like it and why she kept calm because she like me. if it was other guys, she would embarrass them on the phone or sms. I feel maybe she think am too fast to falling in love or whatever she may think. I want her, but I want to take it slow. Any other suggestion on what to do. because the girl seems like a good person to me. Thanks
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reader, AbigailBradbury  +, writes (22 January 2012):
 wow, take a step back chick. You might be coming on too strong for her.
Don't be pushy because you'll lose her altogether. Just do what you are doing now and be a friend to her and be there for her. She'll decide in her own time whether she want's to take it further or not.
I know this probably isn't what you wanted to here, but be patient and take it slow. trust me, you'll be glad if you hold out for her. xx
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reader, izzygurl  +, writes (22 January 2012):
 i think you should "sms" her less often because it might be a turn off for her and try to convince her that all guys are not the same like doing nice things for her, tell her how u feel about her and give you a shot to prove ur different...hope this helps.
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