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I want guys to notice me and not just my friends around me!

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Question - (9 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *rewishes011 writes:

i'm a big gurl or you can call me fat i never had a boyfriend in my life each guy i like either had a gurlfriend or never think of me as a gurl at all i want to know how do i get guys to notice me and not my friends beside me ?

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A female reader, vamp-gal United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2010):

vamp-gal agony auntHey,

I know how you feel, it's like every guy is either in a relationship or only sees you in the "friend" light.

I don't really know what to say except if you're not comfortable with yourself then try and do something which will make you happier, for example you mentioned your weight - which I know can be a sensitive subject - but if you're not happy try and lose some, it will be hard but the outcome will be enough reward.

However, if you are happy with your appearence and everything then don't change for a guy, you just have to be confident in yourself. It's hard when you've never had a boyfriend but I guess you just have to wait for the right guy to come along who can see past all that.

This probably isn't great advice, but just be yourself. Gain a bit of confidence and just be happy with who you are.

Hope this helps,

Good Luck x

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