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I want a relationship with this guy who is 7 years older than me.

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Question - (4 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *llie16 writes:

I'm 16 and he is 23

hes been in my life a very long time..

our families our close.

hes gonna graduate from college and pursue his career,so hes very responsible.

I'm confused about my feelings for him,and his feelings for me.

he comes over a lot and we just hang out and talk and have a lot of fun together.

he always makes me laugh.

i have no clue how to start a relationship with him,or if he even wants too.

im soooooo confused about him

hes always giving me mixed signals.

HELP!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009):

as anonymous NF said there is no age for love. i say there is no age for relationships either.

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A female reader, PeanutButter United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

PeanutButter agony auntI don't think the problem you'll have here is the amount of years between you because 7 isn't all that many really - there were 15 years between my mum and my dad!

I think the problem is going to be that you're only 16 and he's 23. He might be hesitant to pursue a relationship with you because you are, in most states, considered a minor and he could get into some serious trouble for having a relationship with you.

If you're in a state where you are of a legal sexual age (even if you're not thinking about sex, just a relationship) then there is absolutely no reason why you can't have a relationship with this guy, but be aware that in the next few years you're likely to change a lot as you experience life and its lessons and this could either make or break you're relationship with him.

There's no harm in flirting with him, taking it slow and playing it out, see where it goes gradually and enjoy the feelings you're having right now.

Good luck

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A female reader, love?_9 United States +, writes (4 November 2009):

age is just a number im 18 and my bf is 24. if he treats u good go for it

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A male reader, confusedguy1 Australia +, writes (4 November 2009):

confusedguy1 agony auntage not that problem ,

i am 27 and i was with 51 yo

we were fine

so 7 years is not a big deal

good luck

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