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female
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16-17,
anonymous
writes:i've been almost obsessed with this guy for almost a year now, and due to certain things, i do know he likes me back and stuff and in the past we've told each other that we do etc, but we do live about 2hrs away from each other, making things harder.the past couple of days he's been rather off with me, like not eager to talk when i can tell he is still his usual self with this other girl and last night i told him that i really liked him and wished it could work then signed off straight away.now we've both been online for hours yet he's not said anything.has he given up on me?!
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reader, starfairy + ♥, writes (31 December 2007):
 First of all, I'm curious how you can tell he is normal with this other girl?
Secondly, in my experience, if a guy isn't jumping at the chance to be with you, if you get the feeling he's a bit off or cold, chances are he's not that really into you. He might not be into the fact that you live 2 hours away, although you're willing to give it a go, it might be a big problem for him.
You might be obsessing over this guy more because you know you can't really have him - human nature wants what it can't have. But do you really want to have your relationship through msn conversations and phone calls? You want a guy who will take you to the cinema and walk you home, be able to kiss you goodnight and be there when you've had a bad day.
Spend some time getting over this crush, I'm sure there are plenty of guys just as good, if not better, right under your nose.
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